Seductive Dream

By Emma Summers

 One of the basic needs of man is to feel accepted. Knowing this is the secret to establishing and maintaining great relationships with many types of people.

A number of books, articles and seminars have taken the role of enlightening people like you on the different ways of associating with people and building lasting relationships with them. There are a number of things that you can do when associating with other people.

One of these is to make them feel accepted. According to Maslows hierarchy of needs, one of mans basic needs is to feel a sense of belonging to a group. Man feels the sense of belonging in either small groups like a family and small circle of friends, or big groups like clubs, teams, associations, departments and parties.

People have to feel they belong and are needed. One way to express acceptance of peoples ideas is by merely listening. Listening communicates the message that their thoughts are esteemed and their inputs are significant. It answers the very basic need to belong and provides a sense of importance.

Can you relate to any of the following scenarios?

- While sharing an significant insight, somebody would finish off the sentence for you.

- Whilst narrating what happened over the weekend, somebody would butt in and narrate a similar story.

- In a meeting, the boss would cut you short while you are still explaining your side.

- You ask your youngster about his day in school and he runs immediately to his room.

- You wanted to discuss something with your other half but he is busy watching football.

How does this make you feel? Appalling, or what? Its as if you are taken for granted. Its as if no one is listening to you and that you do not matter. It signifies that your thoughts, concerns and ideas are not accepted.At the start of life, an infant can feel this sense of acceptance from a mother who touches and caresses him in a tender way. As he grows older, his sense of approval and importance now comes from other family members, friends, teachers, peers, bosses, officemates, spouse, children, etc. It puts meaning to a persons existence.

Imagine a life with total absence of acceptance. Imagine the life of babies who were abandoned by their mothers. Envisage the outcome this will have on the babies emotional well-being. It is very likely that these children will grow up dejected and feeling discriminated. The effects of discrimination can result in resentment and, if unrestrained, can result to violent tendencies.

The feeling of resentment that is harbored over time can escalate to anger and hostility. When a person becomes antagonistic, violence erupts. Bitterness is like a forest fire - it can go wild specially when fanned with more resentments. The mere well-mannered act of accepting a person can make or break them, as the saying goes.

Acceptance must be done completely. The provider should not expect anything in return. There should be no no strings attached or no commitments to fulfill. To expect something in return defeats the purpose of making others like you. In fact, this may only produce resentment, for it would appear that you are manipulating people by forcing them into a situation they may not like in the future.

Unconditional acceptance of other peoples thoughts, ideas, and concerns can yield favorable outcomes. Acceptance elicits teamwork and this leads to working towards a mutual goal. Acceptance yields positive and rewarding results. At the same time, you have raised the esteem, importance, and morale of the person whom you have accorded respect and acceptance.

Be willing to accept other peoples ideas, thoughts, and inputs. You will produce not only first-rate results, but also the admiration and appreciation of others, as well.

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Christian Speed Dating Services For Christians

By Nair Suresh

 With the help of Christian speed dating service, Christian people can find a compatible mate. Obviously by doing this they can share their love for Christ. There are always complications in the first date meeting. The awkward silence, feeling shy, and difficult to open up are some of the common happenings in the first date. In view of that, one shouldnt spend more time in the company of a person with whom you share nothing in common. You certainly found out that the person you met in the first date is not compatible with you. Therefore, you shouldnt spend more than a few minutes with the person you found boring. In addition, if the date turns out to be a mismatch, there is no need to wait for long. To sum up, it is nothing different than a chancy blind date.

On the whole, an applicant will only spend a very little time which is most probably more than 5 minutes, with these dates. Afterwards, an individual moves on to the next, and again to another. This is how it goes. These days with the increasing availability of singles that are interacting in such a speed dating event, the chances of finding a partner for Christian individuals have increased to a greater extent.

Most of the Christian speed dating occurs either through online or in the real world dating. To more precise, in the real world meeting, individuals need to be presentable in their face to face meeting. Certainly, there are clear-cut advantages of real world meeting over an online meeting. A real time meeting helps one individual to know about the background and realities while online meeting would let you grope in the dark. With the help of a Christian speed dating, an individual is getting a chance to check out the realities of a future partner in a safe environment. Most of these events take place within the safety atmosphere of church. This kind of events are widely taking place in all big cities like New York, LA, California, and other important cities within US. At the same time Christian speed dating is popular in other major Christian countries like UK, Canada, Australia, and New Zealand.

One common interest is that connecting people and this give them confidence and comfort. They find it as the most relaxing way of finding a partner. Singles are free to do a search for that special someone who can be a long term companion in their life. At the same time, you can find a number of dating websites supporting Christian dating. They offer good help as well as tips and advices.

The truth is that there is no much better chance of finding a Christian partner other than participating in Christian speed dating. Finding an attractive individual who leads a spiritual life is important for all Christians. Therefore this is the latest and popular drift in matchmaking among Christian individuals and one who seeks a Christian partner should certainly try their luck with such events.

Hi, I am Suresh Nair. A freelance writer and web designer. I have written many articles on free lesbians dating websites and online date. I have given free dating personals tips for adult friend finder and meet Australia online dating relationships.

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