Seductive Dream

By Rachel Yoshida

 When two people marry, they say it’s for life. Well, there are always rocky roads that most marriages will run into. They say that the first two years are the worst. After that, they say it is going to go a little easier and much better.

The fire in your marriage is always the hottest at first and does cool down over the years. This doesn’t mean that you don’t love your partner anymore or any less. It just means that you are getting comfortable in your marriage and your lives together.

If you feel like you need to rekindle this spark to a blazing fire, you can start by doing little things like these:

1. If you both work, try fixing his favorite dinner and sit in a cozy area for your setting, such as the park, by a lake, or even in front of your fireplace.

2. Try changing your hair color or style to something that will get his attention. Husbands, this also goes for you. If you want to do something to get her attention, you could miss watching your football game for one Sunday.

3. If you really want this fire to blaze, then you can step up your methods to bring in sex toys and playthings to the bedroom. Sometimes, all you need to do is make sure that you are enjoying your private time together. If you have children at home, make sure they are gone for the night.

Some couples really go way out of the way to rekindle their love life and they end up hurting their marriage. If you really feel like you must do this, be very careful that both parties are in agreement to what ever you decide to do.

Here are a few things not to do because your fire will most definitely die:

1. Never have children around at this time because they will just get in the way.

2. Never start to fight with each other or someone else. Never go to bed mad at each other.

3. Always try to be nice to each other no matter how hard it is.

4. Always kiss your partner and give him or her a hug. Tell them to have a good day at work and when they come home give them a hug. Ask how their day was and be understanding to their moods.

With older couples, their fires are most of the time like small little sparks, but they love their life mates just as if their marriages had just started. They still kiss and hug each other and maybe still have a tumble under the sheets once in a while, but most of the time their health has put a stop to this. Their spark, however, never dies.

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Wake Up Every Morning Full Of Energy
By Hans Thorn

 Imagine yourself wakening up every morning full of energy and ready for the challenges of the day. Lots of exciting things are happening and you manage them with success. You turn around the negative to the positive and with the positive you create balance and success within all areas. Would not this be wonderful?

This scenario could be yours, but the question is: Does your life look like this? Most likely most people would like to have a life like this, but the reality for many people is not as positive as the scenario above. A lot of people struggle with bad finances, bad health and bad relationships. How come?

No-one is born with a negative approach or negative thoughts of herself. However, when the years pass by, a lot of people create a negative pattern of thoughts that leads to negative feelings, which always leads to poor results. There is nothing wrong with that and it is pure naturally if you understand the law of cause and effect, where every effect has a cause and every cause has an effect.

The reason for that we think positively or negatively about ourselves and what we can accomplish is to a large extent shaped of what we have seen, experienced and heard as a child. If you have grown up surrounded by harmony, the chances that you have life balance are greater than what you would have had if you had grown up under tougher circumstances. Maybe it sounds unfair, and maybe it is, but you cannot change the past.

However, you can change what you think and feel about yourself now. What has been programmed in your past can be replaced with a new program where you get positive results, all according to the law of cause and effect.

How is this done? The first thing we need to do is to let go of the emotional connection to what causes poor results. To let go of everything that is negative and forgive those who might have done this. Not so much for their sake as for you to be able to be free from the strong bounds that creates your unwished results.

When you then feel free and released from the negative, it is time to program your brain with your dream scenario with assistance of new messages, for example:

1. I love myself

2. I am running a successful business

3. I have many excellent relationships

Read your sentences 10 times each morning and evening during three weeks and continue thereafter with new positive sentences that you want to experience. This will become you new cause and the results will be positive and totally different from your previous results.

Hans Thorn has over 20 years of experience in personal development. He has helped hundreds of clients with success in areas like economy, health and relationships. Get his Personal

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